I, Gloria Poole, RN, artist , currently residing in Missouri but born in the state of Georgia, have given this topic much thought ever since I lived in Colorado those horrible years. I divorced there a second time in Oct 2007 and removed the Pappas name from my name forevermore by order of District Court Judge at final decree; and moved to Missouri on Oct 31, 2009. That's the preface for this:
I got a real life education in what evil is, and how those people think during that second horrible marriage that caused much physical injury to me, much pain and suffering and much permanent damage to my body in several areas. I tried to honor the marriage vows but finally the Southern Baptist Church Pastor said if I wouldn't leave that murderous man [ because it is forbidden by scripture] he would pray for that murderous man to leave me. So he did and I did too. Then, I posted the Ten Commandments of GOD on the doorpost according to Bible scripture and that second then-husband DBP walked in, saw them, said he wasn't going to live by "those rules' , gathered his shirts [no pants] and left all, within about five minutes. If I had known how effective posting the commandments were I'd have done years before I had all those injuries caused by him. He filed for divorce he said for two reasons: because I would not ask Judge to remove restraining order against him; and because I went to the library without asking him or going with him. When Judge asked me if I wanted to contest divorce, I said no, and I told of the attempt by DBP to kill me.
Now, this post is about trying to teach other people how to recognize evil so as to avoid it. Maybe by telling others it will help other people avoid marrying the wrong sort of person, and prevent injury, suffering and pain to others?
These are the characteristics of evil as I observed my then-husband DBP [divorced from him thank GOD since Oct 2007 after 4 horrible years of marriage to him.:
1) They hate GOD and the people who love GOD. DBP called me "JESUS-freak" and spit on me; and said to me: "you have no idea how much you are hated"; [and when I asked by whom? he was silent.
2) They have no conscience and no remorse at any thing they do no matter how evil. They do not repent or feel grief.
3) They laugh even while they are trying to physically hurt other people.
4) They take pleasure in inflicting pain and suffering.
5) They have no respect for any higher authority [Judges or GOD HIMSELF] than themselves. They consider themselves to be god. My then-husband said "no Judge is going to tell him what to do". And they didn't. Because he ignored virtually every order they said to him in the times he was arrested for violence against me.
6)They do not obey laws. They consider laws to be for people beneath them because they think they themselves are god, and think they are above the law. My then-husband would speed, use illegal substances, break and enter, break into computers with help of people who knew how [not me but two men he told me about] ; steal identities, buy fake I D cards at "mexican mill" ; hit and run; make threats to "blow up buildings" and "cut off heads" and "cut throats" and "blow off the heads of law enforcement or anyone who tried to send him to prison with a bazooka"; and twist arms and feet trying to inflict pain and suffering; tried to strangle me, poison me, and put obstacle on stairs as I was walking down behind him and my foot caught in it [his jacket] and I fell down flight of stairs [twice--2 different times]; loosened the handlebars and brakes on my bicycle pretending to "fix it" causing ti to collapse in the middle of street when I got back on it; and threaten me that he would harm my grown daughters [two named Jennifer and leigh]; and hurt me seriously three times then take all food, all money, the car, the phone and tell me if I told anyone he'd kill me.
7) They are ruthless, cut-throat, dishonor everyone, think nothing an nobody is sacred or holy.
8) They say the "world "owes" them. DBP said that often and would add details such as "Denver public schools "owes" him because he had to go there and not go to private school." That the U S "owes" him because ..." ; that I "owed" him "because he married me and I should be thankful"; that the woman he called his mother :owed" him everything because she was poor; that the man he called his 'father" [but who denied it several times] "owed" him his house because he lived with him; etc, etc, etc.
8) They lie, cheat, swindle, steal, murder. I leaned 2 years after divorce from DBP from another Court hearing I was summoned to as a creditor, that DBP told some people I was his 'sister" by claiming my mother {MJBP] as his mother saying he was her 7th child'; and some that I was his "mother [ when I am his second exwife and had to prove that to fed Judge with certified documents 9nd State ID]; and the Post Office that I was his "employee" and the IRS that I was his "volunteer" and the TV station that I was his property as he dragged me from the TV with physical force. I know he said he would kill his probation officers. I know the Denver Post article perfectly described his physical appearance and routine clothing when they were asking public to help identify the murderer of District Attorney Sean May. I know he has or had at that time 2 shotguns because I asked the old man he lives with and he said he had them stored at his house. I didn't know that in year 2006 however--not until about Feb 2007 when DBP was defying Court order to stay away and spending some nights each week in the apartment there in Aurora Colorado [May 2007-May2007]. I know that DBP came back with objects that did not belong to him saying the person who gave massage too, gave them to him, but one of those men told me he did not give DBP money or objects [other than fee for massage] but that he stole it, and stole things like razors, and decorative items and towels from his house.
10) The evil call stealing "being an opportunist". They do not call anything as it is. They use weasel words, deceit, fake identities. For example , I did not know that DBP told people deliberate lie that he was a medical doctor until he forced me into his vehicle to go buy a TENS unit that only medical doctors could buy and he signed their form saying he was a medical doctor but he is only a masseuse, who had a license [whether fake or not it was on paper and I saw it] as a massage therapist [in Colorado]. I protested and he stomped on my foot.
11) They are promiscuous with anybody everybody. DBP told me the kiss he gave me at wedding [civil ceremony] was only for show [after about a year] saying he has to pretend in public so if I try to haul him into court for violence against me or divorce as his first wife did, there would be witnesses saying they saw him kiss me, or be nice to me in public. He said he kisses many people, men and women [which horrified me and repulsed me that he also kissed men. I am disgusted by sodomy and that perversion of homosexuality. And do not want AIDS!
12.) They have no boundaries in any relationship. DBP would go "over to his "mother's" at 2 am. He took his adulterous girl friend while still married to me into his and mine marriage bed when I was at my daddy's funeral. He also twisted the arm of the woman he identified as his mother to me when he took me to meet her. He used physical force against her and when I tried to stop him he shoved me out the door and locked it. And when he came back he said he "had too" to take away from her what she said was her "last two dollars".
13) They have no respect for real names or other people's names or identities. DBP said "it doesn't matter what name you use as long as you get what you want". Stealing or buying identities was a frequent occurrence for him. He said he "bought" new I D [name, address] every time he got arrested to avoid prosecution for previous arrests.
My motive in writing this has been stated. The Bible is also clear on how to identify evil and it is written in Romans 1: 18-32, King James Holy Bible. What makes it difficult is that psychopaths are generally smart enough to escape detection. DBP lied about so many things that I still do not know what his real name is, what his relationship to the old man was [but I suspect it was sodomy] and he kept me in such an emotional state of terror, fear, anxiety , pin and suffering that it has taken me to today [7 years later] to sort this in my head to put it on paper this way. I had said I would write this for law enforcement and this is it.
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15 June 2014 at 11:02am.
